Ways To Be Better At Everything In Bed | Mouth To South

Mouth To South: "Women get very worked up about oral sex techniques." You can study the diagrams and read the detailed instructions (you know, the ones that make origami look like child's play) but what will that actually achieve? "The best starting point is remembering that the majority of men simply love that fact that you're willing to do it in the first place. Thais alone should be a boost to your confidence and encourage you. It will certainly keep them turned on."

For most men, it's about the intimacy of the moment, the total acceptance of his body as much as the sensation. But if you don't like it, is there anything you can do? "A great way to reduce the pressure is to treat oral sex as a part of foreplay, rather than the whole picture," suggests sex expert, who gives classes on erotic techniques.

"Don't even attempt to bring him to orgasm, just take time exploring and plying around. Tongue flicking, licking, using your hands - do whatever you feel like doing. Treat it like a mini erotic massage."

Don't put yourself under pressure, ripping back the covers and diving straight for it isn't much for a turn on. Anticipation is the best part. Having a long bath together is a great start. And remember you don't have to go too deep - most of the feeling is at the top.